When The Angry Words Just Slip Out {Building Marriage}

I think we’re all guilty of it. In the heat of the moment, words slip out.

Words that you didn’t truly mean.

When you’re as close to someone as you are to your spouse, it’s easy to take out the filters of your speech when you’re angry, upset, or seriously annoyed.

I’m definitely guilty of this sometimes. Sometimes I get what we call “hangry”. It means I’m hungry, tired, stressed….and easily annoyed! These times are my weakest for saying impulsive criticisms of Joel that I don’t really mean.

Joel is a forgiving, patient, and loving peacemaker. I’m so thankful for that! He definitely has lots of opportunities to put those virtues into practice. :)

But…those words have still been spoken.

It’s so important to treat your spouse with love, and that includes considering your words before you say them. Once spoken they can’t be taken back. They can be forgiven, but not taken back.

Be careful what you say impulsively, even in your weakest “hangry” moments. And remember to be patient with your spouse in those weak moments. It’s at those times when they need you to be patient and loving the most!

Here’s to loving each other in our weakest moments!

*hugs*

Amber